10 lessonslessons learned from the book "The Character Edge"

1. Character is the foundation of success. No matter how much talent or intelligence you have, you will not achieve lasting success without character.

2. Character is built on core values. Your core values are the beliefs that guide your actions and decisions. They are the foundation of your character.

3. Character is developed through practice. Character is not something that you are born with. It is something that you develop through practice.

4. Character is tested in adversity. The true measure of character is how you respond to adversity.

5. Character is contagious. The people you spend time with have a big impact on your character. Surround yourself with people who have strong character.

6. Character is essential for leadership. Leaders are role models. They set the tone for the culture of their organization.

7. Character is essential for teamwork. Teams are made up of individuals with different strengths and weaknesses. Character helps teams to function effectively.

8. Character is essential for relationships. Strong relationships are built on trust, respect, and loyalty. Character is essential for building and maintaining strong relationships.

9. Character is essential for a fulfilling life. A life of character is a life of meaning and purpose. It is a life that is lived in service to others.

10. Character is the ultimate competitive advantage. In today's world, the most successful people are those who have strong character. Character gives you the edge you need to succeed.

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TYPES OF PEOPLE TO STAY AWAY FROM

1- The racist, colorist, sexist and ableist:

They are superficial, judgmental, ignorant and full of hatred.

People who hold extremely dangerous views, promote hatred, pass it on and brainwash people are not good to be around.

Remove them from your life and protect yourself from them.

2-The egocentric and full of pride: They feel superior to others, they lack humility and are extremely self-centered.

Do you know what to do with people who have huge egos?

You leave them alone. You let them stay in their delusion and complex of superiority.
In time, life will humble them.

Surround yourself with people who are loving, humble, kind and respectful. They deserve more of your attention and time. They will teach you self-love and help you improve your self-esteem.

Try not to pay attention to people who give off negative vibes. Focus on people who love and care about you. Those are the people that matter. Stay blessed 🙏🏾

#handwriting
The Love Doctor Ken

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𝐑𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰 :-
"𝟑𝟎 𝐝𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞"

1. Habits shape our lives: The book highlights the powerful influence of habits on our daily routines, productivity, relationships, and overall well-being. It emphasizes the importance of understanding and intentionally shaping our habits to create positive change.

2. Awareness is key: Developing self-awareness is a crucial step in changing habits. By becoming mindful of our behaviors and the triggers that lead to them, we gain insight into our patterns and can make conscious choices to modify them.

3. Start small: The book emphasizes the effectiveness of starting with small, manageable changes. By breaking down big goals into smaller, actionable steps, we increase our chances of success and build momentum over time.

4. Consistency matters: Consistency is the key to making lasting changes. By committing to a habit for 30 days, we develop discipline and establish new neural pathways that make it easier to sustain the desired behavior.

5. Build a supportive environment: Surrounding ourselves with people and an environment that supports our desired habits greatly enhances our chances of success. The book emphasizes the importance of seeking accountability partners and creating a conducive space for positive change.

6. Focus on one habit at a time: Trying to change too many habits simultaneously can be overwhelming and counterproductive. The book advises focusing on one habit at a time, dedicating focused effort and attention to ensure its successful implementation.

7. Mindset matters: Cultivating a growth mindset is essential when embarking on habit change. Believing in our ability to change and viewing setbacks as learning opportunities rather than failures helps maintain motivation and resilience.

8. Develop a routine: Creating a consistent daily routine that includes time for our desired habits increases the likelihood of success. By incorporating habits into our daily schedule, they become more automatic and less susceptible to being forgotten or neglected.

9. Celebrate progress: Acknowledging and celebrating small wins along the way boosts motivation and reinforces positive habits. The book encourages readers to appreciate their progress and use it as fuel to continue their habit change journey.

10. Long-term maintenance: The book emphasizes that habit change is not just about the initial 30-day challenge but about sustaining the desired habits in the long run. It provides strategies and tools to ensure that the changes made during the challenge become a permanent part of one's lifestyle.

Thanks for reading
~ 𝗧𝗼𝗻𝗴𝘀𝗮 𝗚𝘂𝘆

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Have you ever questioned why certain events happened in your life?

Everything has a purpose, but most of us have limited awareness; we don't always understand it.

There are times when we face challenging situations in life or meet people who stay in our lives only for a short period of time. We wonder if we had to endure the pain; why did this happen, or why did we ever meet those people?

Walk with trust even when you experience adverse events in life. Although it may seem painful then, it will give you extra strength to serve the greater purpose that life will bring you next.

Dr Bhawna Gautam

#smsarchiving #burning #motivation

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Get ready to join us for a vibrant and joyful celebration of our savior Jesus Christ!
Get hyphed for an extraordinary spectacle as we present to you Kumasi’s biggest event of the Year!!!!

Spread the word everywhere you go
It’s all About JESUS!!

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Top 8 Lesson learned from Book - "The Power Of Habit"

1. "Change might not be fast and it isn't always easy.

But with time and effort, almost any habit can be reshaped."

2. "The Golden Rule of Habit Change:

You can't extinguish a bad habit, you can only change it."

3. "Champions don’t do extraordinary things. They do ordinary things, but they do them without thinking, too fast for the other team to react.

They follow the habits they’ve learned."

4. "Willpower isn’t just a skill. It’s a muscle, like the muscles in your arms or legs, and it gets tired as it works harder, so there’s less power left over for other things."

5. "Rather, to change a habit, you must keep the old cue, and deliver the old reward, but insert a new routine."

6. "If you believe you can change - if you make it a habit - the change becomes real."

7. "This is the real power of habit: the insight that your habits are what you choose them to be."

8. "Small wins are a steady application of a small advantage."

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ADVICE TO THOSE FALLING IN LOVE:
1. When you fall in love make sure it's with somebody who treats you exactly how you deserve to be treated.
2. Love somebody who wants to know everything about you,from your favorite color to your childhood memories how you managed to survive all those years.
3. Love somebody who can make you laugh,who kisses your forehead and who notices all your flaws but chooses to see past
them.
4. Love somebody who listens to whatever is on your mind,who protects you and always reminds you how blessed they are to have found you.
5. Love somebody who you can't stay mad at for more than an hour because you miss speaking to them,who knows every freckle on your face, every stretch mark on your thighs, every scar and every tear.
6. Love somebody who you can plan your future with,and most importantly love somebody who is God fearing.
7. And lastly don't forget to make them feel loved in return.

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7 Things Your Marriage Needs That Money Can’t Buy: Marriage requires work.Hard work, but beyond that there are things every marriage needs and they don’t require a single penny.

1-Honesty.
Being honest with those we love is not always easy, but in the end it makes your relationship stronger and is always the right choice. Lying creates stress, anger and resentment which are all detrimental to your relationship.

2-Fun and spontaneity.
Have some fun and be spontaneous, start a dance party in the living room while you’re preparing dinner, flip through some old photos and reminisce, take a trip down memory lane and tell each other what made you fall in love with them in the first place.

3-Room to grow and change.
Be open to your spouse changing and coming into their own. Encourage and support them on new hobbies, interests and positive lifestyle choices even if they aren’t what you choose to do.

4-Affection.
Hug, kiss, hold hands, give love taps, whatever you both feel comfortable with. Be sincere, playful and show affection often.

5-Appreciation.
This is an expression of gratitude. When you show appreciation to a loved one, you are saying that they are a special and significant part of your life.

6-Love.
The action requiring your involvement, your active participation.
Love has to be earned and must be continually fought for.

7-Time.
Spend some time right now and think about how you’re going to make your marriage a priority today. it’s the little things that go a long, long way.

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THE REALM OF THE SPIRIT IS NOT MOVED BY MAKE UP!!!

Fine girl I celebrate beaurii but fine girl can you pray?

I’ve been faced with real life challenges and it reminds me over again that the realm of the spirit doesn’t know fine face but spiritual authority .

If you’re still concerned about ruining your make over or your facial expression in the place of prayer then you’re not ready to contend for Spiritual capacity.

Spiritual audacity comes from a functional prayer altar not by beauty or physical posture.

Situation and circumstances no Dey look fine face.

Don’t be that fine girl that can slay people with pictures yet you cannot slay any situation with scriptures.

Don’t just be glowing physically yet you cannot glow as light in darkness.

Fine girl you can be comfortable rocking your heels yet your presence is causing demons to be uncomfortable and take to their heels.

Dear sir, don’t be going about with six packs yet you don’t have any spiritual impacts.

It’s beyond doing press-up yet they are still pressing you in the night.

Dear ladies, we can change the narrative, Imagine the headache we’ll give the devil when he sees beautiful ladies that could choose to be laying on the bed of immorality but instead are laying themselves bare on the altar of Abba and setting their world on fire for him.

Dear fine girl build prayer power, surround your physical beauty with fire so you can be spiritually sensitive and don’t make the mistake of Tamar.

Dear bro build prayer power so you don’t end up like Samson.

The goal is to be fine and firefully anointed.

PS: Any Fine man or fine girl without Jesus is waste of fine don’t waste your fine.

©Abiodun Dammy

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GRATITUDE!
Not too long ago, I had a conversation where a friend was complaining about how words of gratitude from her have become overused in their home. She has to show gratitude for everything her husband does even when it's his duty. However, with her, it's underused because she hardly receives gratitude.

As the conversation went along, I began to reflect on how mere mortals crave gratitude and if we have an understanding of where gratitude starts. I wondered if I could function on any given day without GRATITUDE to the real deserving recipient.

Whilst we can count the many gifts and blessings we receive daily, we can also just take a moment to look behind, around and within us. Be it near or distant, be it seen or heard, there is a story that makes us wonder why and how we escaped.

There must be someone we lost, something tragic we saw, something we were affected by or news we heard. The interesting thing is: If you're reading this, then it means through it all, you survived and even thrived. What makes us unique? Nothing but unfinished purpose. Isn't that more than enough reason for gratitude?

Let's process how our year is going so far. If you could say something to the force and master behind this entire stage called life what would you say? What else can you really say to God?

It's time to think again about the sense we have called GRATITUDE. Are you living it? 💛🖤✨

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