Does pain bring us closer to our higher self?

We feel hurt in many different situations and by many other people, but deep pain compels us to seek the meaning of life.

When we are deeply hurt by someone's words, actions or behavior, we feel very alone. When we find no one else, we become closer to ourselves, and only then do we discover our true desires, realize our inner strength and understand the true meaning of life.

Don't be discouraged about life if someone disappoints you. Sometimes we have to go through pain because as we seek healling, we become closer to the higher power, heal others and fulfill our purpose in life.

Dr Bhawna Gautam

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You don’t deserve to be canceled on for dates. You don’t deserve to be yelled at under any circumstance. You deserve to be with a person who understands that respect is an important aspect of any relationship.

You shouldn’t be getting into a relationship unless it’s with someone who actually treats you in a way that you have never been treated in your life.

You should only be with someone who doesn’t want to go to sleep at night without fixing a fight. You should only be with that person who can’t go a whole day without talking to you.

You should always choose to only be with the person who actually pushes you to become a better person. You should always strive for the kind of relationship that allows you the space and opportunity to grow.

You deserve to only be in the kind of relationship that is worthy of your love and attention. You should only be in the kind of relationship that actually never leaves you feeling like you are on the short-end of the draw.

You only deserve the best. You deserve true love. So until then, don’t rush into a relationship that is actually less than what you’re worth.

Stay Single Until You Meet
The Person Who Makes Love Easy: You don’t have to force yourself into believing that you’re actually meant to be with someone.

When you meet that person who is just right for you, no convincing will be needed. Just don’t get into a relationship until you’re absolutely meant to be with one.

You don’t have to be pressuring yourself into anything that is less than what you actually deserve. You shouldn’t be getting into a relationship until you actually meet the person who brings absolute joy and endless laughter in your life.

You should only be with someone who always makes you smile no matter how difficult things may get. Don’t get into a relationship with someone until you actually meet a person who no longer brings pain into your life.

You don’t need any more problems to deal with.
You don’t need that extra stress in your life at all. You don’t want any additional burdens. You only want to be with someone if that person manages to take some burdens off of your shoulders.

You should only be with a person who actually helps to heal your wounds. You should only be with that one person who can right all the wrongs that are in your life.

You only want to be with someone who can actually help you heal. You should only be with that person who manages to make you forget about the worries that life has for you.

Don’t rush getting into a relationship unless it’s with someone who is actually able to make you understand what real love is like.

You should only be with a person who makes you realize that love doesn’t always have to be difficult and intimidating.

You should be with the person who actually makes you believe in the power of love to change peoples’ lives for the better.

You should only be getting into a relationship with people who also nurture you whenever love goes through rough patches. You should only be with a person who is able to protect you from the harsh realities of living.

You don’t have to force yourself into believing that you’re actually meant to be with someone. When you meet that person who is just right for you, no convincing will be needed.

You will just know. You will be sure. You will be confident. You will feel at ease. You will be at peace. You don’t have to always be overthinking things with this person.

You should only be getting into a relationship with the person who never forces you to second-guess yourself. You should always have that sense of comfort and stability in your relationship.

You can’t afford to be in a relationship with someone who makes you think that love is never a sure thing.

You have to be secure enough in your relationship to know that you have what it takes to go the whole way.

You can’t afford to get into a relationship with someone who doesn’t trust you. You have to always have trust in a relationship in order for it to work. You need to only be with a person who is willing to be vulnerable in front of you.

You should probably just be single if your partner is going to be someone who just can’t seem to give you the trust that you deserve in the relationship.

You both have to be confident in one another’s ability to always take care of each other; to never hurt each other; to never betray each other.

You shouldn’t be getting into a relationship unless it’s with someone who actually believes in the relationship more than just the self.

You shouldn’t be getting into a relationship with someone unless it’s actually with a person who doesn’t break promises to you. You have to only be with someone who actually respects you enough to make sure that you never feel betrayed.

You don’t deserve to be in a relationship wherein you feel like you are constantly being deprioritized or made a fool of. You don’t deserve to wait around for hours for a person to text you back.