No matter how much we love someone, there should be a limit to what we can take from them.

One time I went to visit my boyfriend unannounced, I mean I have the keys to his house, someone who said I should feel comfortable.

So, that night I went to his house, hoping he won’t be around, it was about raining 🌧.

I went there, tried to open the door, but it wasn’t opening, so he came to open the door, and he met me outside, and went inside, a lady was laying in the bed, my legs couldn’t move.

I wanted to go, but almighty rain came, so I stayed back, I sat on my chair, hoping to hear , come and lie her babe, but no!

It was 9pm, so I took the duvet from the wardrobe, and I laid it on the floor, heartbroken.

Guess what?

My boyfriend had se.x with this girl, while I’m laying on the floor, sobbing, and she had to moan, because it was sweeting her, and my man was saying come for daddy, I can’t forget that Friday night.

I cried o, and I slept off.

I loved him so much, he knew, because I don’t know how to hide Love, if I love you, you will know, I’ll become so soft for you.

He used to brag that I can never leave him, that I love him so much, he was right.

But that night, I made a decision, that nobody will treat me like that again.

I left his house that morning, and I never called.

Guess what?

He didn’t call me the whole day, and I didn’t call him.

48 hours later, he called me to ask how I have been, I told him, it’s OVER!

He laughed and called me a comedian!

He hung up the phone.

One week later, I no call , two weeks , I no call.

He began to call tirelessly , and I kept saying it’s OVER!

He started begging , I missed him so much, I wanted to forgive, my heart wanted to give in, but my mind was out.

One month later, he called, I’ll pick, and say it’s OVER!

He told his mom, but didn’t say why, his mom called, and asked why, and I told her about the incident, and she went silent for a few minutes, then hung up.

The next day, she called, and asked how are you doing, omo I couldn’t control my tears, I cried and said I will survive!

He tried three months later, I had moved on.

He couldn’t believe I could move on, but I did, one day I told him “I hope you don’t treat anyone like that again”.

He said he will change for me, and I told him it’s too late to apologise, till date, he still says “I am Sorry”.

I’m not a bad woman, I have my t0xic trait, but hey? Don’t we all have?

I’ll never joke or fvck around with someone’s heart , NEVER!

But people do this very well, and they sleep so well.

IF GOD HAS IT, YOU HAVE IT.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness and self-control… (Galatians5:22-23).

Each of the fruit of the Spirit is an attribute of God. God unconditionally says, “They are you.” God knows you have love. He knows you have joy—it doesn’t matter what you are going through. God knows you have joy down there inside you, because Christ is joy.
Peace. How do you explain that? I used to think the Prince of Peace. “Hello, Prince.” I always thought: “Others have the peace.
Give me some, Jesus.” But that’s not what the Bible teaches. The Bible says you have peace.

When you are unhappy and everything is
going wrong, God says, “Have peace.” He doesn’t say, “I’ll give you some peace,” because He can’t give you what you already have.
Peace is not a gift; it’s a fruit. Joy is not a gift; it’s a fruit. If God has it, you have it.
In the beginning there was only God. All that is and all that was, was in God—everything. We came out of God. Thus, everything that
is in God, is in us: love…joy…peace…patience…kindness…goodness…faithfulness…gentleness…self-control. These are in God and
in us.
“Love? I can’t like that person.”
“You’re lying to me,” God says. “What do you mean you can’t love? Your spirit connected to My Spirit can do all things. Since I love, you can too.”
As Romans 5:5 puts it: “…God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit….” After you return to God, the Holy Spirit
brings love back to your heart. He ignites the stuff that has been in your heart all along. It’s not that you can’t love; you just don’t want
to love. Love isn’t a decision you make, because you already have it.

That’s why you can love your enemies.
Everything that is in God, is in us.

~Dr. Myles Munroe || understanding your potential
- JESUS SAVES TV

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IF GOD HAS IT, YOU HAVE IT.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,
gentleness and self-control… (Galatians5:22-23).

Each of the fruit of the Spirit is an attribute of God. God unconditionally says, “They are you.” God knows you have love. He knows you have joy—it doesn’t matter what you are going through. God knows you have joy down there inside you, because Christ is joy.
Peace. How do you explain that? I used to think the Prince of Peace. “Hello, Prince.” I always thought: “Others have the peace.
Give me some, Jesus.” But that’s not what the Bible teaches. The Bible says you have peace.

When you are unhappy and everything is
going wrong, God says, “Have peace.” He doesn’t say, “I’ll give you some peace,” because He can’t give you what you already have.
Peace is not a gift; it’s a fruit. Joy is not a gift; it’s a fruit. If God has it, you have it.
In the beginning there was only God. All that is and all that was, was in God—everything. We came out of God. Thus, everything that
is in God, is in us: love…joy…peace…patience…kindness…goodness…faithfulness…gentleness…self-control. These are in God and
in us.
“Love? I can’t like that person.”
“You’re lying to me,” God says. “What do you mean you can’t love? Your spirit connected to My Spirit can do all things. Since I love, you can too.”
As Romans 5:5 puts it: “…God has poured out His love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit….” After you return to God, the Holy Spirit
brings love back to your heart. He ignites the stuff that has been in your heart all along. It’s not that you can’t love; you just don’t want
to love. Love isn’t a decision you make, because you already have it.

That’s why you can love your enemies.
Everything that is in God, is in us.

~Dr. Myles Munroe || understanding your potential
- JESUS SAVES TV

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