THE LACK OF SELF WORTH IN WOMEN
The typical African man is taught to be very confident. He exudes this confidence without doubt, that's why you'll see an irresponsible & unkempt conductor toasting a classy woman on the road. Ever wondered where men get their guts from?
Even men who aren't competent or capable still ooze a shocking confidence. This is prevalent in the work place, some male bosses know nothing! They are just confident & guess what? Sometimes the pseudo-confidence works for them. Men command too much power with undeserving pride.
I have seen drop dead gorgeous & educated women constantly take crap from men who are not in anyway close to their caliber. When I speak to these women, I see a lack of self worth, and the little portion of self worth they have is based on male admiration. That's why women will take from men what they won't take from their fellow woman, without romantic strings. Why? It's worth thinking about. How many of you women truly believe you deserve the best? How many of you love yourself enough? I don't mean the Social media self love trend. Because, With all the self love, body positivity & liberation campaigns that erodes the media, in real life, women still fall into the reality of not valuing themselves enough. Self love is more than just a caption on social media. It's a lifestyle; it's deliberate.
I have also discovered that women who are really close to their reasonable fathers do not condone rubbish; they are tough & strict with high standards, like I said before, a girl's first example of what a man should be is her dad. I think fathers should do better with raising daughters, because it is easier to learn confidence from a father than from a mother, because on the scale, women compromise much more. Fathers need to teach their daughters confidence & self esteem. I'm emphasizing on fathers, not because mothers cannot, but it is easier for a man to teach his daughters what not to take from a man. It is easier and it sinks in better! I hope this spurs women to know their worth cos many men will use your lack of self worth and rubbish you!
Lack of self esteem can make a woman date a goat. The first thing that you should teach your daughters is SELF-ESTEEM. It stops rubbish.
