Dear Brethren,

There is nothing wrong with Love, for God is LOVE.

There is nothing wrong with marriage, for God is the bearer of MATRIMONY.

It is the wrong decision you made that is backfiring!

It is the wrong decisions you keep making in that relationship or marriage with the right person that's backfiring.

Yes! You can be with the right person and it will still end in premium tears if you keep making bad decisions in the relationship or marriage.

The decision not to forgive.
The decision not to understand.
The decision to be impatient.
The decision to starve your partner of attention.
The decision to be an adulterous woman or a community pènis.
The decision not to do away with your hot Temper.
The decision to be jealous.
The decision to not chase communication.
The decision to not build on intimacy.
The decision to not make your relationship with God intentional.

You'll keep changing relationship like diaper.
The marriage will still fail.

You can have the right person and ruin the relationship. Some people feel that having such a great person is all it takes to make a marriage work. No matter how right someone is for you, if you lack maturity, you'll destroy it. Marriage is work even with the right person.

What God has joined together can still be assundered by your wrong decisions coupled with your stubbornness.

Stubbornness to apologise.
Stubbornness to take correction.
Stubbornness to make peace.
Stubbornness to win an argument at the cost of the other person's peace.
Stubbornness to work on yourself.
Stubbornness to make efforts to change.

Stubbornness can upset the plans of God for your marriage, gross stubbornness.

Many times it is not that you're unlucky in a relationship, it is because you don't know a good thing when you see one.

Many times there are no witches or village people anywhere chasing the joy in your marriage, the evil Spirit is you, yourself and yours.